the big reads
Only one detail can show that your partner cheats
Finding out your partner has cheated is devastating and inevitably leaves you desperately wondering how you didn’t suss out they were up to no good.
But according to Reddit users whose partners have done the dirty, there are some telltale signs to look out for.
Men and women have taken to one of the site’s forums to share common signs of infidelity after their unfortunate experiences.The real price of divorce
And some of them are surprisingly devious.
Redditors pointed out guilty partners may accuse their other half of being the unfaithful one to hide their own infidelity.
One wrote: “Every relationship I had that ended because I found out they were cheating had one common denominator: They frequently accused me of cheating.”Scientists are baffled by girl locked In a cage for 12 years
Another admitted: “I used to be a chronic cheater, and you definitely become paranoid about the one you’re cheating on doing the same as you. It’s easy to not get caught and you start worrying that they could just as easily do it back to you.”
Other users suggested that love cheats become aggressive about the idea of cheating, while them being vague about where they’ve been is also a cause for concern.
One said that “long periods of time in which you cannot account for their whereabouts” is a giveaway, adding: “When they do tell you where they have been, they tell you a detailed story, in which they progressively fill in the details because it is a lie. Sad!”Your sex dreams, decoded
When it comes to their behaviour at home, Redditors flagged showering at strange times of the day — even when they haven’t been to the gym — and taking late night phone calls.
Shockingly, one woman told how she once received a wedding invitation from her partner’s fiancee.
She explained: “That was not only a clear-cut sign he was cheating, but that I was the other woman and in second place.”This is how much longer women’s orgasms last than men’s
Others told how people having an affair are likely to talk about another woman or man constantly and go so far as “putting them before you”.
Another telltale sign is apparently having unsaved numbers in their phone.
One Redditor wrote: “My high school boyfriend never saved phone numbers into his phone. He claimed he was just ‘too lazy’. Turns out the unsaved numbers belonged to his many, many side girls.”Celebrity personal trainer opens secret how to reach your goal
Last summer we told how a former mistress revealed 10 clues to spot whether your man is cheating.
And in February, we disclosed five telltale signs your fella is having an affair, according to ‘sought-after mistress’ JeanMarie.